how do i review my blacklist

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i suspect a friend has added me to her black list by mistake but we cannot find out how to actually look at her blacklist and/or delete me from it

[Marcos 5,460]

What blacklist do you mean? Antispam blacklist? At any rate, you cannot check someone else's configuration.

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i found how to check the blacklist by much digging.

i did not mean to imply that i wanted to check her configurations without her.  I figured if i knew how to check MY blacklist i could tell her how to check HER blacklist.

as it turns out blacklists and exemptions lists do not appear to be causing our problems.

i will probably open a new thread later.

thanks