nevermind i just installed antivirus only, i don't like the firewall anyway and it's just dead weight to me as I disabled it always in favor of windows firewall which doesn't bother me all the time.
Yes maybe i bought the wrong product because buying something from eset is such a challenge, in previous years it took me hours to just find a way to be able to get apayment processed, then this years it's wrong product. Probably due to poor and unclear labeling, or maybe i got temporarily blind, who knows...