my solution to get it running again, looks like a bad file(from another post I think):
mv /var/opt/eset/esets/lib/em002_32.dat /var/opt/eset/esets/lib/em002_32.dat.old
systemctl stop esets
rm -rf /tmp/*update.lock; /opt/eset/esets/sbin/esets_update --verbose
systemctl restart esets
systemctl status esets