Farah gave kudos to Marcos in IDS on Server2008 R2
It's because of this: https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/help/2664888/computer-stops-responding-when-you-run-an-application-that-uses-the-wi
So the solution is to make sure the hotfix is installed, then install EFSW and enable Web & Network protection during installation.
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Farah gave kudos to Marcos in ESET Endpoint Security 7.1 uses more and more RAM as time goes on
We have pinpointed a memory leak in the memory dumper. A fix is being reviewed and will be released through an automatic module update next week.
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But as stated here :
Allow reboot - This option applies to Windows operating systems only and forces the client computer to reboot once the updates are installed. If this option is not selected, updates that require a reboot will not be installed.
So in the current implementation, the scenario you want to achieve is not possible. You either install all updates and if one of them requires to reboot the computer will reboot. Or you install all updates that do not require a reboot.
The only workaround for this can be to schedule the task in a timeframe when the reboot will not cause any problems.